Thank you so much for showing up for yourself. There is nothing sexier then when you show up for yourself, partake in your own growth and empower yourself.
Through much trial and error, have been there done that, lots of research, contemplating, writing, and teaching I have gathered 10 simple sure ways to help you recognize and accept that you are already perfectly complete, without the need to change a damn thing. You are one truly magnificent being.
It is my wish that these simple methods help you to give up the illusion that anything outside of you is responsible for your happiness and that you my dear friend is in utter control of your happiness.
- 1- INVESTIGATE IN YOURSELF
It is so interesting to see how we cling to our beliefs like there is no tomorrow. As if our belief is the only belief that is true. Please, please get out of this narrow minded mentality and investigate! Dig deep into those thoughts and beliefs you have been holding on to for so long. Look them straight in the eyes. Meditate, contemplate on them. There is nothing in this world that is more liberating than realizing the relative nature of your thoughts and beliefs.
- 2- JUST FREAKING DO IT
When inspiration hits, just go for it before your mind starts creeping in. Don’t give a flying fig about failure, or what others have to say. Do what you got to do, and follow that heart of yours, over and over again. It is the truth, and it knows!
- 3- EVERYDAY DAMN DAY JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART
Your desires are what makes you who you are. Your desires are what makes you unique form the rest. They are why you are here on this planet earth anyhow. So the least you can do is acknowledge their existence. Give yourself the greenlight, and cut the crap of thinking of all those reasons why you should not go for it.
Firmly sit in your creator seat and move towards your best life ever. If you are not clear of who you want to be, or what you want to do, make this your number one priority, roll up your sleeves and get to work. Meditate, contemplate, write, do what you got to do, but find these things out.
And once you are crystal clear about what it is that you really want, focus on it as if your life depends on it. Trust, be still and allow the path to unfold. And when inspiration hits, make that first as if it is the end of the world.
- 4- DOMINATE YOUR FOCUS
Make it a game with yourself to focus only on what you want, and what feels good. Whenever you are not feeling so good it is because you are focused upon what you don’t want, and what is NOT truth. Practice being in the present moment and give your full undivided attention to the task that is in front of you in this very moment.
- 5- IT IS NOW OR NEVER BABE
Approach every single desire you have as if it is now or never. What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for the perfect moment? Pardon the breaking news, but there is no such thing as a perfect moment, the perfect moment is NOW. Get out of your limited thinking mind and go for it now, because now is all you have.
- 6- IT IS ALL ABOUT YOUR MINDSET
If you want to change your reality, you have got to change your mindset first and foremost. If you believe that it ain’t gonna work, it ain’t gonna work pumpkin. If that is the vibe you are one, you close yourself off for all the possibilities, and you won’t be open to receive the solution.
If your mindset is, “B*tch I’m freaking going for it”, than nothing can stop you. When you step boldly and fearlessly into the unknown, the path will reveal itself unto you naturally, and the solutions will come in perfect Divine timing, they always do, but you have got to be open for it. When you change your mindset, you change your reality, this is the truth and the only truth my sweet little darling!
- 7- REFUSE TO TAKE YOUR EYES OF YOUR GOALS
Believe in your goals even when no one does. Who cares about them anyway? Keep your eyes steadfast focused on who you want to be, and where you want go, as if your life depends on it, because it does. And even if your goals seem too far fetched and impossible to achieve, stick to it anyway, and refuse to take your eyes of it.
Once you make the decision to go for something, you will encounter some challenges. That is part of the process and this is what makes it all so much fun. No one ever says that the road to the top was easy, so buckle up. You can do it! You have what it takes! if not, you would’ve not have been given the idea in the first place.
And always remember, if there is question, there is also an answer, and if there is a problem, there is absolutely a solution.
- 8- YOU’VE GOT TO ASK TO RECEIVE
There is infinite guidance and support available to you in every single moment, but you have got to ask to receive it. Don’t assume the universe knows what you want, because quite frankly most of your energy’s are scattered all over the place.
One moment you want to lose weight, and the second moment you are craving chocolate ice cream, and then you don’t understand why you are not losing the damn weight. In other words be very clear as to what it is that you want and then be very specific in your asking.
- 9- ALWAYS BELIEVE IT EVEN IF YOU CANNOT SEE IT
Don’t give a rip if there are a gazillion reasons why you should not believe it, believe it any way. We attract into our lives exactly what we believe. So if you are experiencing any lack in your life, start questioning your beliefs.
Becoming aware of those limited beliefs we cling to about ourselves and about our lives is the first mayor step in transformation. Once you become aware of them, you can choose differently. If you can’t even recognize your limited beliefs, how can you chose differently. You beliefs, regardless of how awesome and brilliant they are, they are still just one perspective from the totality.
By no means am I saying that anyone’s beliefs are wrong or right. Just investigate and find out for yourself its relativity.
- 10- HAVE SOME FUN
Be playful, there is nothing serious going on! You are here and there is nothing you can change about this fact, so why not, have some fun while you are at it? Do what you love and love what you do.
There is so much abundance that surrounds you all day every day. You just have to tap into it, and tweak your perspective a little bit. And if you can’t, just be willing, tell the universe I am willing to see the abundance in this moment, I am willing to see this damn thing from a different perspective.
Be light, be happy and make those around you happy too! If you only knew how loved you are!!
One love.